Is Someone You Love Hurting You?

Domestic Violence is the use of fear, threats or violence to control a spouse or partner. Domestic violence has been a crime hidden in shame and secrecy, yet it is a problem that affects all of us
Did you know. . .

• Domestic violence is the single most common cause of injury to women in the United States?
• Children who grow up in violent homes are five times more likely to grow up as victims or abusers?
• Domestic violence, drinking, and drugs often go together? Alcohol and drug use don't cause the abuse, but it can make it worse.

Domestic violence happens to many people. You are not alone, and it is not your fault if you are being abused. It can help to talk to a VIBS counselor or advocate to explore your options.

Leaving an abusive relationship can be very hard to do. You can get the support you need to make healthy choices and create a safety plan for you and your children.

Abuse can take many forms: verbal, emotional, physical and sexual. Many times verbal and emotional abuse escalates to physical violence.

Battering can happen in gay, lesbian and straight relationships. Battering in any relationship is about power and control.